The Story
One of my most memorable meals was hosting my team at our home in Istanbul. In that work culture, a boss inviting everyone over was unusual, and my colleagues arrived intrigued — not quite sure what to expect.
Instead of a formal dinner, they found me in the kitchen, rolling out fresh pasta for lasagna. The act of making a meal like that from scratch is about more than just skill; it's an exercise in vulnerability. It immediately breaks down the walls between "boss" and "colleague." It's less about a performance and more about nurturing — creating something foundational and welcoming, right in front of them.
Sharing that meal did more to build our team than any formal meeting ever could. It's a philosophy I carry into my work: the best results come from genuine connection and a willingness to be open and human.
Ingredients
For the Bolognese Ragù
- 500g ground beef
- 250g ground pork
- 1 large onion, finely diced
- 2 carrots, finely diced
- 2 celery stalks, finely diced
- 4 cloves garlic, minced
- 150ml dry white wine
- 400g canned crushed tomatoes
- 2 tbsp tomato paste
- 200ml whole milk
- 2 bay leaves
- Salt and black pepper
For the Fresh Pasta
- 400g 00 flour
- 4 large eggs
- 1 tsp salt
For the Béchamel
- 100g butter
- 100g flour
- 1 liter whole milk, warmed
- Nutmeg, salt, white pepper
To Assemble
- 150g Parmigiano Reggiano, freshly grated
Method
Make the Ragù (Day Before if Possible)
- Sauté onion, carrot, and celery in olive oil until soft — at least 15 minutes on low heat.
- Add garlic, cook 2 more minutes.
- Add ground meat. Brown thoroughly, breaking it up well.
- Add white wine, let it reduce completely.
- Stir in tomato paste, then crushed tomatoes, bay leaves, salt and pepper.
- Add milk. Stir, then reduce heat to the lowest setting.
- Simmer uncovered for at least 2 hours, stirring occasionally. The longer the better.
Make the Pasta
- Mound flour on a clean surface, make a well in the center.
- Crack eggs into the well with salt. Beat gently with a fork, gradually incorporating flour.
- Knead for 10 minutes until smooth and elastic.
- Rest wrapped for 30 minutes.
- Roll out thin with a pasta machine or rolling pin. Cut into sheets sized to your pan.
- Parboil sheets briefly in salted water, cool flat on a clean towel.
Make the Béchamel
- Melt butter in a heavy pan. Add flour and stir constantly for 2 minutes.
- Add warm milk gradually, whisking continuously to prevent lumps.
- Cook on medium-low heat until thick. Season with nutmeg, salt, white pepper.
Assemble
- Preheat oven to 180°C (350°F).
- Spread a thin layer of béchamel on the bottom of the pan.
- Layer: pasta sheet → ragù → béchamel → Parmigiano.
- Repeat for 4–5 layers, finishing with béchamel and a generous covering of Parmigiano.
- Bake 35–40 minutes until golden and bubbling. Rest 15 minutes before cutting.